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"Let a
student* who has not violated his vows of
Brahmachaarya(student-life), and has conducted himself,
righteously according to the advice of his preceptor, enter
married life after he has studied with their subsidiary
sciences, the four Vedaas, three Vedas, two Vedas, or one Veda
only." MANU 3: 2.
"Let him, who has faithfully discharged his duties
towards his preceptor and received from his father, - natural
or spiritual (i.e., the teacher), the gift of the knowledge of
the Veda, sit on an elegant bed, decked with a garland of
flowers; and let his father ( natural or spiritual) honor him
with the present of a cow." MANU 3: 3. A female student
possessed of the aforesaid qualification should also be
honored in the same way by her father.
"Let a twice-born man (Braahman, Kshatriya, and Vaish)
after having obtained the consent of his teacher and taken the
bath ( prescribed for the ceremony of Return Home from the
seminary), return home and espouse a maid, of his own Class,
endowed with excellent qualities." MANU 3: 4.
* Male or
female
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"A girl, who is not descended on his mother's side
within the sixth degree and does not bear the same family name
(Gotra) as his father's. is eligible for marriage." MANU 3: 5.
It is a fact that "we do not love or value a thing,
that we are familiar with, so much as one that is hidden from
our view." SHATHAPATHA BRAAHMANA. For instance, if a person
has heard a great deal about the sweetness of sugar, but never
tasted it, his mind is taken up with the desire of tasting it.
Or when we hear a person, who is not known to us, highly
extolled for his excellent qualities, it makes us very eager
to make his acquaintance. For the same reason, a man should
marry a girl, who comes from a distant country and is not a
near relative either on his mother's side or father's side.*
The
advantages and disadvantages of distant and near marriages
respectively are:-
-
Any two persons who have, in their childhood, lived
near each other, played and quarreled together, loved one
another, noticed each other's faults, imperfections,
ebullitions of temper
* At Washington city before
the National Medical Association long since in the session
there, Dr. S.M. Bewis made the following shocking statement:
"My researches give me authority to say that over ten per
cent of the deaf and dumb, and over five percent of the
blind , and nearly fifteen percent of the idiotic in our
State institutions for subject of these effects, are the
offspring of kindred parents."
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and misbehaviors, and perhaps sometimes, even each
other undressed, if married to each other, can never love
each other to the extent desired.
The marriage of near relatives does not improve the
race from want of interchange of fluids and essences (such
as blood) of the body, it rather deteriorates it,. This is
analogous to the addition of water to water, no new quality
being produced.
As the addition of sugar and such medicines as
ginger, improves the taste and quality of milk, so does the
marriage of people, who are not related to each other
(either on father's or on mother's side), improve the race.
As in the case of an invalid, change of climate and
diet very often effects a cure, so does marriage with
foreigners or distant people improve the health of the
parties and prove beneficial in every other respect.
When the parties are nearly related to each other and
live amongst their people, the sorrows and joys of one
family will
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affect the other and there will be many occasions for
family disputes to arise; while marriages among distant
people and consequent separation from relatives lengthen the
thread of mutual love. This is not the case when they live
near their people.
When marriages are contracted with people of foreign
or distant countries, things and news from those countries
can be easily obtained (and consequently relations between
different countries become closely established). This not
possible when people marry near relatives or persons living
near their homes, or, in their own country.
In Sanskrit a daughter is called duhitri (from
Du - distant, Hit - good), because the marriage of a girl to
a man who comes from a distant country or distant part of
the same country is productive of good.
If the bride's people do not live very far from her
husband's home, there is a possibility of her parents
becoming poor, as whenever she visits her parents, they will
have to give her something or other by the way of a present.
If their people live near at hand, on any slight
friction taking place between the husband and the wife, she,
feeling assured that her people will support her, will at
once leave her husband and go to her parents. That may
become the cause of mutual reviling and wrangling, for,
women, as a rule, are so easily offended and pleased.
"In
connecting himself with wife, let a man studiously avoid the
following ten families, be they ever so great in political
power or rank, or ever so rich in cows, goats, horses,
elephants, gold or grain."* MANU 3: 6.
* Similarly, while choosing a
husband, let a girl avoid a man from the aforesaid
families.
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"The family which is not religious, that which is
destitute of men of character, that in which the study of the
Veda is neglected, that the members whereof have long and
thick hair on the body and that which is subject to such
diseases as Piles, consumption, Asthma, Bronchitis, Dyspepsia,
Epilepsy, Leprosy, and Albinism; because all these faults and
diseases are transmitted to the offspring.* Therefore both
husband and
* A good example is given by Sir
Alfred Garrod, who writes:- "A few years since, I was
consulted by a gentleman laboring under a severe form of gout
with chalk stones, and although not more than fifty years old,
hea had suffered from the disease for a long period. On
inquiry, i ascertained that for upwards of four centuries the
eldest son of the family had invariably been afflicted with
gout when he came into possession of the family estate." (Gout
and Rheumatic Gout, by H.A. Garrod, M.D., F.R.S.) - (Marriage
and Disease, by S.A. Strahan, P.220.) As to advice
respecting marriage, it may at once be said that those already
suffering from any form of tubercular disease should not
marry. Neither should anyone marry a member of a family in
whicn consumption or other form of tubercular disease is
common. - (Marriage and Disease, by S.A. Strahan, p.
212).
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wife should come from good (physically, morally and
intellectually) families." MANU 3: 7.
*Epilepsy is, in fact, one of
the most strongly hereditary of all diseases. In this respect,
it is on a footing with the suicidal impulse, melancholia,
drunkenness, and gout. Dr. Russell Renolds found heredity well
marked in 31 per cent of his cases, and says, " I am
therefore, led to believe that an hereditary tendency of
epilepsy is much more common that it is generally represented
to be by recent writers on the subject." Echeverria said 28
per cent of all cases coming under his notice were hereditary.
Webster in England, and Esquirol in France, declared that a
third of all cases of epilepsy depended on family taint, while
Dr. Gowers, one of the greatest authorities on the subject,
asserts that no less than 36 per cent of all epilepsy has
hereditary transmitted predisposition as a foundation.
I
myself have records of 143 consecutive cases of epilepsy, as
they appeared for admission into an asylum for the insane.
There were 93 males and 50 females. Of the males, 344 per cent
were members of families in which either epilepsy or insanity
of some description had already appeared; of the females, 50
per cent belonged to the same classes; while in 398 of the
total of both sexes there was positive evidence of hereditary
taint. I would also remark that in a considerable number of my
cases, no history of any kind could be obtained.- (Marriage
and Disease, by S.A. Strahan, p - 134-135)
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"Let a man never marry one who is pale and anaemic, nor
one who is altogether a bigger and stronger person than
himself or has a redundant member,* nor one who is an invalid,
nor one either with no hair or too much hair or too much
hair,** nor one immoderately talkative, nor one with red***
eyes." MANU 3: 8.
* All families in which diabetes
occurs should be looked upon with suspicion, and should
epilepsy, idiocy, insanity, or deaf-mutism also have appeared
in the family, it is a very grave question whether marriage
should be ventured upon. -(Marriage and disease, by S.A.
Strahan, p.131). **Here we do at times find cases to
support the theory, but it is amongst those less grave
characters which, while unmistakably marked, do not so rapidly
go to extinction of the family that we must find our strongest
proof, among such characters are hore-lip, cleft palate,
club-foot squint, cataract supernumerary fingers or toes,
color-blindness, premature baldness, or greyness,
deaf-mutbifida, and the like; or on the other hand, where the
characters physiological. Instances of repeated transmission
of any or all of the above-mentioned characters can be found
everywhere around, and , doubtless, cases will present to the
mind of the reader.. -(Marriage and Disease, by Dr. S.A.
.Strahan, p.63).
A
still more peculiar case was that of Edward Lambart, "the
human porcupine", as he was called; this man's skin was
covered by warty projections which were periodically moulted.
He had six sons and two grandsons similarly affected, while
the females of the family escaped; the two grandsons mentioned
having seven sisters who were free from the peculiarity.
(Dr.S.A. Strahan's Marriage and Disease, p. 71).
"In the village of Koshilovo (Grodno Government) there
are over 50 peasants who have more than usual number of
fingers. According to interesting particulars published in the
Novoe Vremye, they are all descendants of a peasant who
married in the first half of the last century, and who had
extra fingers on one of his hands. In the present generation
this abnormality is reported to the extent of 2, 3, 4, and 5
even additional fingers. Some cases simply show a thumb
duplicated from the first joint. As the result of
intermarriage the deformity is spreading to neighboring
villages. It dispenses the young men from military service,
however sound they may be constitutionally." - (the Eugenics
Review, London.). ***The word in the text is Bhura or
brown. But I think this is not right. Very likely there has
been a slip of the pen here. The word in the verse which has
been translated into Bhura (brown) is Fingalaa which has been
rendered into Pilaa or yellow in the author's book called
Sanskaar Vidhi. Here however, it seems that the word means
red. -Tr.
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"Nor one with the name of star,* of a tree,** or of a
river,*** or of a mountain,**** nor one bearing a name
denoting low origin,^ or servility,^^ nor one named after a
bird,+ , a snake, ++ nor one whose name inspires terror." MANU
3: 9. These names are despicable and belong to other things as
well.+++
"Let him choose for his wife, a girl who has a graceful
figure without any deformity, who has a pretty name, who walks
gracefully like a swan or an elephant, who has fine hair and
lovely teeth, and whose body is exquisitely soft." MANU 3: 10.
O. ~ What is the best time for marriage and which is
the best form?
A. ~
The best time for marriage, for a girl, is from the sixteenth
to the twenty-fourth year of her life and for a man, from the
twenty-fifth to the forty-eighth year. The marriage of a girl
of sixteen to a man of twenty-five years is called Inferior
marriage. Of a girl of eighteen or twenty with a man of
thirty-five or forty is called medium marriage. Of a girl of
twenty-four with a man of forty-eight is called superior
marriage.
The best form of marriage is that by choice
(Swayamvara), after the education of the contracting parties
is finished and their Brahmacharya for the aforesaid period
completed. Happy is the country wherein the people devote
themselves to the pursuit of knowledge, live chaste lives, and
adopt the aforesaid form of marriage. Down into the depths of
misery sinks that country wherein the people do not practice
Brahmacharya, nor acquire knowledge, where early
* As Ashvini, Rohni,
etc. **As Rose, etc. ***Such as Ganges,
etc. ****Himdlyd. ^Kali (Black), etc. ^^Chaandali (an
outcast), etc. + Mend, Parrot, etc. ++ As Naagi (snake),
etc. +++ The idea of the sage Manu seems to be that the
people should not give ugly name to their children.
-Tr.
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marriage and marriage between the unsuitable, are
prevalent, for, marriage preceded by the practice of
Brahmacharya and perfection of knowledge is the basis of all
true reform and the source of all true happiness; the reverse
of it brings on the absolute ruin of people who follow it.
O. ~Says Paraasara, the Law giver:- "A girl at
the age of eight is called Gauree,* at nine, Rohinee,** at ten, Kanya,*** thereafter she is
called Rajaswalaa.**** If she is not married before
she becomes Rajaswalaa (i.e., till the tenth year), her
father, , mother and elder brother, all of them shall go to
hell.
A. ~ Says the Brahma Puraana (that has just been
composed by us) "In one second after birth, a girl is called
Gauree, in two seconds she becomes Rohinee, in
three, Kanya, and thereafter Rajaswalaa. If she
be not married till she become Rajaswalaa, her father, mother,
brother, sister and maternal uncle, one and all shall go to
hell."
O. ~ The verses, you have quoted, are not
authoritative.
A. ~ Why are they not authoritative? If Brahma's verses
are not authoritative how could yours be?
O. ~ Well! Well! Do you not hold even Parasaasara
and Kashi Naath as authorities?
* *Gauree means fair and is also
the name of the wife of Mahaadeva one of the incarnations of
the deity mentioned in the Puraana. **Rohinee means red, it
is also the nme of the wife of Vasudeva, a Puranic
God. ***Kanya, a maid. **** One that mentruates. (This
has been just composed by us).
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A.~ Do you not hold Brahmaa an authority? Is
Brahma not greater than Paraasara and Kaashi Naath? If you do
not believe in Brahma, we reject your Paraasara and
Kaashi Naath.
O. ~Your quotation cannot be held authoritative,
because it teaches an impossibility. One thousand seconds are
taken in childbirth alone, how could a girl , then, be married
when she is only one, two or three seconds old; nor can any
good result from a marriage at such and impossible age.
A. ~ If our verses convey an impossible meaning, so do
yours; because a marriage even at the age of eight, nine, or
ten years is useless, for it is only at the age of twenty-five
year, that a man's body is properly developed and the
reproductive element perfected, and it is at the age of
sixteen, that a woman's body is strong enough and her
reproductive organs sufficiently developed to bear good and
healthy children.*
The reproduction of children in a girl of eitht years
is an impossibility. Besides naming girls, as, Gauree
(fair) and Rohinee (red), is simply absurd, because a
girl may be dark as well as fair. Again Gauree wa sthe wife of
Mahaadeva and Rohinee of Vasudeva, whom you Puranics (Hindus)
regard as mothers. You imagine your girls as representing
Gauree and Rohinee, how could you then be justified in
marrying them to do so? How could it ever be in conformity
with the dictates of true religion?
It follows, therefore, that both your verses and ours
are absolutely wrong and devoid of authority. Just as we
composed a few verses and palmed them off as Brahma's, so have
other people forged those verses and in order to stamp them
with authority have passed them off as the
* In his book Sushruta, the
great surgeon, Dhanwantri forbids sexual connection between
persons who are under the aforesaid ages thus:- "If a girl
under sixteen conceive of a man under twenty-five years, she
very often miscarries but if she does not miscarry and the
child is born at full time he does not live long, but if he
does live long, he is nothing bu a weakling; never should,
therefore, a man have sexual intercourse with a girl of a very
tender age." SUSHRUTA Sutra sthana 10:47, 48. The perusal of
the principles (of Sexual Physiology) laid down in scientific
books observation of the laws of nature and reasoning on this
subject cannot but lead one to the irresistible conclusion
that a man and a woman, undertwenty-five and sixteen years
respectively, are not fit for discharging reproductive
functions. All those who violate the above principles come to
grief.
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writings of Paraasara and other sages. It is
best, therefore, to reject all these so-called authorities and
recognize the Veda alone as the proper authority in all
matters and set accordingly.
"It is better that men and women should remain single
till death rather than marry unsuitables; i.e., persons of
mutually unsuitable qualities, characteristics and
temperaments should never marry each other." MANU 9: 89
Says Manu:- "Let a maid wait for three years after she
has begun to menstruate and then let her choose for herself a
husband, who is her equal." MANU 9:90. A girl menstruates once
a month and, therefore, it is after she has menstruated
thirty-six times in three years that she becomes marriageable
but not before.
All this goes to prove that it is not right or proper
that marriages before aforesaid period, or of unsuitables,
should ever take place.
O. ~Should marriage be under the control of parents
or the contracting parties themselves?
A. ~ It is best that it should be under the control of
the contracting parties. Even if parents ever think of
arranging a match, it should, under no circumstances, ever be
done without the consent of the parties for when people choose
their partners for life themselves, there is less likelihood
of mutual disagreement and the children born of such a union
are also of a superior order.
There is nothing but trouble in store for those whose
marriage is not of their own choice - they having been simply
forced into it. The real factors in marriage are the bride and
the bridegroom, and not their parents. It is they who will be
happy if they agree well together and they alone will suffer
if they disagree.
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"In whatsoever family the husband is contented with his
wife, and the wife with her husband, it is there and there
only that happiness, wealth and honor dwell permanently." MANU
3: 60. And wheresoever the husband and the wife disagree and
squable, there is nothing but misery, poverty, and disgrace.
The Swaymvara marriage, i.e., marriage by choice
- the most ancient form of marriage in India - is the vest
form of marriage. Before a man and a maid think of marrying,
they should see that they suit each other in point of
knowledge and disposition, character, beauty, age, strength,
family,* stature, and built of body and the like. Until they
suit each other in all these things, no happiness can result
from marriage. Nor can marriage in early life ever lead to any
beneficial result.
"That man alone, who, after having taken the vows of
Brahmacharya at the time of his initiation (Upnayana)
into it and observed them strictly in student life, has
perfected his knowledge, refined his character, and who is
well-dressed and enters married life in the full bloom of
youth is as if born again (in knowledge and wisdom).
He makes a name for himself and enjoys happiness. He is
firm and courageous; his mind is centered on the increase of
knowledge and attainment of wisdom. Men or learning and piety
give him their helping hand to elevate him. He is thus honored
amongst them. Those who marry without having previously
practiced Brahmacharya and acquired knowledge and
culture, or who do so at an early life, are absolutely ruined,
nor are they ever respected by the wise and the learned." RIG
VEDA 3:8: 4.
*Vide Page 85 where the list of
families with whom no marriage connections should be formed is
given. -Tr.
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"Let girls, who are virgins, resembling cows that have
never been milked before, who have passed the period of
childhood and are about to leave single lives, are
well-educated and cultured, fit to bear all the
responsibilities of married life, and are in the full bloom of
youth, who, by the practice of Brahmacharya, have
reached a state of excellence and wisdom, which only those of
great learning and high virtues can attain, marry husbands of
mature age and bear children by them." RIG VEDA 3:55: 16.Never
should they think of men even in their dreams in early life.
This alone can give them happiness in this world and herafter.
Early marriage i even more harmful to a woman than to a woman.
"Just as men, quick on perception and action,
energetic, in full youth, strong in body and capable of
discharging reproductive functions marry maidens, who are
young, dear to their hearts, and enjoy life to a good old
age(a hundred years or more), and are well-blessed with
children and grand-children, so should all men and women do.
Since seasons, mornings and evenings, days and nights, all
tend to take away the beauty and strength of the body and
bring on old age, I (whether a man or a woman), should
practice Brahmcharya, acquire knowledge, perfect my
character, gain in strength of body and soul and attain full
youth before I get married." RIG VEDA 1:178: 1. All those who
violate these principles of marriage do so against the
teachings of the Vedas, hence they never can be happy.
As long as in this country (India), sages and seers,
emperors and kings and other people followed the aforesaid
system of marriage by choice (Swamvarivivah) precede by a life
of Bramacharya devoted to the acquisition of knowledge
and culture and perfection of the body, it continually
progressed and prospered. Since its inhabitants have neglected
Brahmacharya and the pursuit of knowledge,
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and have instead, taken to child-marriage - and that
too under the control of the parents, - India has been
steadily declining. It, therefore, behoves all good and
sensible men to do away with this pernicious system, and
introduce instead, marriage by choice in accordance with the
divisions into Classes, (Varna Vyavasthoo) which should be
based on the qualifications, accomplishments and character of
the individuals.
O.~
He, whose parents are Brahmans, is a Brahman indeed. But
can a person, whose parents are not Brahmans ever become a
Braahman ( the highest class).
A. ~ Yes. Many, in the past, have become
Braahmans many in the present do and many in future,
will. Here are some of the historical proofs. In the
Chhaandogya Upnishad we read that the sage Javaal
of an unknown Class became a Braahman. In the
Mahaahaarata, it is written that Mishwaamitra,
Kshatriya (second class) became a Braahman, so did the
sage Maatang an outcast by birth. Even at the present
day, he who possesses the qualification, character and
knowledge of a Braahman is respected as such and the
ignorant are treated as Shoodraas (lowest class). So
will it be in the future.
O.~ How can the body formed out of the reproductive
elements - male and female - change in character and assume a
new form suitable for another Class.
A. ~ A man does not become a Braahman because
his body was the product of the reproductive elements derived
from the bodies of Braahmanparents. Says Manu, "The
study of the true sciences, the practice of
Brahmacharya, the performance of Homa, the
acceptance of truth and rejection of untruth the dissemination
of true knowledge leading a virtuous life as enjoined by the
Veda, the performance of seasonal Homa, the
reproduction of good children, faithful discharge of the
five Great Daily Duties, and doing such other good
works as are productive of beneficial results to the
community, such as developing technical arts, association with
the good and the learned, truthfulness in word, deed and
thought, and devotion to public good and the like, all these
things go make a Braahman" MANU 2: 28.
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Now do you not believe in this verse?
O.~Yes, I do.
A. ~ Well, then, why do you believe that the division
into Classes is based on the accident of birth?
O.~ It is not I alone who think so. There are many
others who believe with me, it being the most ancient usage
from time immemorial. Do you oppose even the most ancient
customs?
A. ~ No! But on account of your perverted understanding
we do.
O.~How is it that our understanding you call
perverted, whilst you think yours is rightly directed?
A. ~ Simply because you call a usage, which is only six
or seven generations old, as the most ancient custom, whilst
we call that custom ancient which has been in vogue from the
time of the revelation of the Veda or that of Creation
of the world to the present day.
Do you not see in this world that good parents
some-time get wicked children, and good children have wicked
parents, at other time both are good or bad? Why cannot the
Braahman children then become Shoodraas or
vice-versa? You people are sunk in doubt and ignorance. Se,
what the great sage Manu says:- "Let children walk in the
footsteps of their forefathers, but only if they be good, not
otherwise; since by treading the path of good and pious men,
no one ever comes to grief." MANU 4: 178. Do you believe this?
O.~Yes, I do.
A. ~ Besides, whatever has been revealed in the
Veda by God is ancient, but whatsoever is opposed to it
can never be called ancient. Should all people believe like
this or not?
O.~Certainly they should.
A.~ He who refuses to believe in it should be asked.
"If a person's father be poor and he grows rich, should hem
therefore, through the pride of his father's poverty, throw
away his wealth? If a man's father be blind, should his son
also pluck his eyes out?
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If a man's father be of low character, should his son
also be do wicked deeds'? No, never. On the other hand, it
behoves all men to imbibe their parents' virtues only, not
their vices. He who believes that one's Class is determined by
the accident of his birth, not by his own character,
accomplishments and acquisitions, should be asked do it is
that he does not recognize a man a Braahman, even when
he has left his Class and become an outcast, or has turned a
Christian or a Muhammadan.
The only answer he can give is that he has left off the
performance of duties required of a Braahman. If
proves, therefore, that only those who faithfully discharge
the high duties of a Braahman, can be called
Braahmans. even if a low-born man were to possess
qualifications, accomplishments and character of a superior
Class, he should be recognized as such; and if a man,
high-born though he be, were to act like a man of an inferior
Class, he should be relegated to it.
O.~The Yajur Veda says "Braahmans were born of His -
God's - mouth, Kshatriyaas, out of His arm, Vaishayaas, out of
His thighs, and Shoodraas, out of His feet." Now just as the
mouth can never become an arm, nor can an arm become the
mouth, so can never a Braahman become a Kshatriya, etc., nor,
can the latter become the former.
A. ~ Your translation of the aforesaid mantra is wrong.
The word His has reference to the word Purusha , the
Formless All-pervading Being, in the preceding mantra. Being
Formless He could not have such organs as the mouth. Were He
to possess these organs, He could never be Omnipresent, nor
therefore Omnipotent, no could He then create and sustain this
universe and resolve it into the elementary condition, nor
dispense justice to the souls according to their deeds good or
bad, nor could He be Omniscient, Unborn, Immortal and the
like.
The true meaning, therefore, of this mantra is that it
this universe created and sustained by the Omnipresent God, he
who is the (mukh) head, leader among men, is called a
Braahman, he in whom power and strength (Baahu*) reside
preeminently in a Kshatriya. He who travels about from place
to place
* Baahu, verily is strength,
verily Baahu is power." Shatpatha
Braahman.
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for the purposes of trade, etc., and obtains all things
(for the community) on the strength of his thighs (i.e. is the
support of the community just as the thighs are that of the
human body) is called a Vaishya, lastly a
Shoodra is like feet, the lowermost part of the body,
because he is ignorant.*
Other authorities translate this mantra in the same
way; as for instances, the Shatapatha Braahman says,
"These (Braahmans) are said to be born out of the head as they
are the heads - leaders". Just as the head is the highest
organ in the body, so is that man the nobles and the best in
the body of politic whose knowledge is perfect and whose
acquisitions, accomplishments and character are of the highest
order amongst men. He is, therefore, called a Braahman.
Besides, it is as impossible for any thing to be born
out of the mouth of God (Since being without a body, He has no
mouth nor any other organ) as the marriage of the son of a
barren woman. Had Braahmans been born out of the mouth
of God, it being their material cause, their bodies ought to
have been round, like the mouth, in shape. Likewise the bodies
of Kshatriyaas, Vaishayaas, and Shoodraas ought
to have been like arms, thighs and feet respectively in shape,
but they are not so.
Besides, even supposing some were born in the manner
you speak of, those who were born out of the mouth and other
organs might have justly been entitled to be called
Braahmans, etc., but not you who were born, like other
men, out of your mother's womb. Why should you then pride
yourselves on being Braahmans when you did not come out
of the mouth of God? We have proved, therefore, that you
translation of the aforesaid mantra is wrong, whilst ours is
right.
The sage Manu holds the same view. Says he " "As the
son of a Shoodraa may attain the rank of a
Braahmanif he were to possess his qualifications,
character and accomplishments, and as the son of a
Braahman may
*And therefore fit for menial
service only.
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become a Shoodraa, if he sinks to his level in
his character, inclinations and manners even so must it be
with him who springs from a Kshatriya; even so with him
who is born of a Vaishya. In other words, a person
should be ranked with the Class whose qualifications,
accomplishments and character he possesses." MANU 10: 65. It
is written in the A'pastambha Sootraas that "A low
Class man may, by leading a virtuous life, rise to the level
of a higher Class man and he should be ranked as such. In like
manner a high Class man can by leading a sinful life, sink
down to the level of a Class low than his, and should be
considered as such." Apastambha Sootraas,
The same law applies to women in determining their
Class.
By the application of this law, each Class, being
comprised of individuals who possess all the qualifications
that are necessary for admission into it, is kept in a stage
of unadulterated purity, that is to say, no Kshatriya,
Vaishya or Shoodraa is allowed to enter into or
remain in the Braahmana Class. Similarly, Kshatriya,
Vaishya and Shoodraa Classes also remain
unadulterated. In short, there can be no admixture of Classes,
hence no class will be disgraced or become the subject of
reproach in the public eye.
O.~Supposiing a family has only one child and that
enters into a different Class, who will then look after the
old folks? Besides, the family line will die out. How would
you provide for such cases?
A. ~ Neither will the old people be neglected nor will
the family line come to an end, because the State - Political
and Education Assemblies* - will provide them with children of
their own Class in exchange for their own children, hence,
there will be no confusions or chaos in the society.
Classes of all persons should be determined according
to their qualifications, accomplishments and character in the
twenty-fifth on the sixteenth year, according as they are
males or females. They should also marry persons of their own
Class, namely, A Braahman, a Braahman woman;
Kshatriya a Kshatriya woman: A Vaishya, a
Vaishya woman, and a Shoodra, a Shoodraa
woman. It is then and then only that the people will
faithfully discharge the duties of their respective Classes
and secure, thereby, perfect harmony.
* See Chapter 6 of this book for
the composition and powers of these assemblies. -
Tr.
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"Studying and teaching, performing , Yajna* and
assisting others in doing it, giving alms, and receiving gifts
- these six are duties of a Braahman." MANU 1: 88. But
should be borne in mind that "The receiving of gifts is a mean
thing."
- "Restraining the mind from entertaining sinful
thoughts.
Keeping the senses from the pursuit of
unrighteousness and directing them, instead, in the path of
rectitude.
Living a pure, chaste life by the practice of
lifeBrahmacharya.
Attaining purity (of mind and body)**.
Having firm faith in the power of truth and
righteousness and being perfectly indifferent to the
applause or censure of the world, pleasure or pain heat or
cold, hunger or thirst, profit and or loss, honor or
disgrace, and sorrow or joy, in the discharge of one's
duties.
Cultivating tender heartedness, humility,
straightforwardness and simplicity of character.
Acquiring a profound knowledge of the Veda and
other Shaastraas, attaining the ability to teach
others, the power to discriminate between right and wrong,
and the knowledge of all things (animate or inanimate) as
they really are.
Possessing a perfect knowledge of all entities - from
earthly things to God - and
* Yajna is the application of
the knowledge of the physical, chemical and physiological
and the like properties of material substances and of
psychological ones of mental substances. It, therefore,
generally requires the association of men and objects. "The
word Yajna which originally indicates any action requiring
association of men and objects, productive of beneficial
results is always translated by European Scholars, as
sacrifice. The notion of sacrifice is a purely Christian
notion and has no place in the Vedic philosophy. It is
foreign to the genuine religion of India. Hence all
translations in which the word sacrifice occurs are to
rejected as fallacious." - The terminology fo the Vedaas and
European Scholars.
** Manu says: "Water washes off the impurities of the
body, truth exalts the mind, knowledge and strict devotion
to duty elevate the soul and possession of ideas refines the
intellect."
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the proper application thereof.
Having perfect faith in the Veda,
God,
and salvation,
belief in the past and future life of the soul,
love of righteousness and knowledge and
association with the good and the learned,
always cheerfully serving the father, mother tutor,
and the altruistic teachers of humanity and never maligning
these.
These fifteen characteristics and accomplishments must
be found in a person, before he or she can be called a
Braahman or a Braahmani (female)." Bhagvat Gita.
-
"To protect people by the administration of perfect
justice without fear or favor, i.e., by showing due respect
to the good and punishing the wicked.
To spend money in furthering the cause of truth and
justice and in advancing knowledge and serving the
deserving.
To perform Homaand other Yajnaas.
T0 study the Veda and other Shaastraas
To shun the allurements of sensual gratification by
perfect control of the senses and thereby constantly augment
the powers of the body and the soul." MANU 1: 89.
To be fearless in fighting with enemies though they
be in thousands and he be single handed.
To be bold, and dignifies and fee from all weakness.
To be firm of resolution and cool under difficulties.
To be clever in the discharge of public duties and in
the pursuit of studies and never to run away as to ensure
victory.*
To be liberal-minded.
To be just in dealings with all and always to keep
his word." GITA.
These
eleven are the duties and qualifications of a
Kshatriya.
* If
the field could be won by running away or putting the enemy on
a false track or through strategem, he should do so
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-
To keep herds of cattle, breed, improve and multiply
them.
To spend money, etc., in the advancement of knowledge
and truth.
To perform Yajnaas, such as Homa.
T study the Veda and other Shaastraas
To lend money on interest.*
To cultivate land,.
These
are the duties and qualifications of a Vaishya>
"It behoves a Shoodraato earn his living by
faithfully serving Braahmans, Kshatriyaas and
Vaishyaas, without showing and disrespect, jealousy and
conceit. This one thing alone is a Shoodraa's duty and
qualification." MANU 1: 91.
The duties and qualifications of all the four Classes
have thus briefly been described. All individuals should be
placed in different Classes according to their qualifications,
accomplishments and character. By adopting this system all
will advance in every respect, because the higher Classes will
be in constant fear of their children being degraded to the
Shoodraa Class, if they are not properly educated. The
same fear will also make the children acquire knowledge and
culture. Whilst the lower Classes will be stimulated to exert
themselves for admission into the Classes above them.
To recapitulate, the education of the community and the
preaching of religion should be entrusted to
Braahmaans, because they, being men of profound
learning and exemplary character, can discharge those duties
most satisfactory. By entrusting the affairs of the State to
Kshatriyas, a country never suffers through misrule or
mismanagement.
Tending the cattle, business, etc., should be entrusted
to Vaishyaas, as they can do this work properly. A
Shoodraa is to do menial service, because being
ignorant through lack of education, he is fitted for nothing
higher, but can minister to the physical requirements of the
community.
* The rate of interest should
range from 3 to 16 per cent, per annum and should never exceed
this. When the debtor has paid back double of what was lent to
him, even the principal must be considered as paid off. The
debtor should never pay at rates exceeding the above limit.
Nor should any one lend money at a higher
rate.
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It is the duty of the ruler and other responsible
persons to see that all the four Classes discharge their
duties faithfully.
Marriage is of 8 kinds:-
-
Brahma.
Deva.
A'rsha.
Praajaapatya.
A'sura.
Gaandharva.
Raakhasa.
Paishaacha.MANU :3: 12.
-
Brahma.~ The marriage, by mutual consent, of
two such persons as have, through the regular practice of
Brahmacharya acquired perfect knowledge,
righteousness, and culture, is called Brahma.
Deva.~ The giving away of a beautifully
dressed daughter (by her father), to one, who officiates at
a great Yajna, is called Deva.
A'rsha is that kind of marriage, solemnized in
lieu of consideration received from the bridegroom.
Praajaapatya is the marriage relation into
which both parties enter with sole object of furthering the
cause of righteousness.
.A'sura is a form of marriage solemnized after
both the bride and the bridegroom have been bribed.
Gaandharva is the reciprocal (sexual) congress
of a youth and a maiden with a mutual desire proceeding from
lust, in which (all social) laws have been utterly
disregarded.
Raakhsasa is the forcible or fraudulent
abduction of a maiden from her home.
Paishaacha is the forcible deduction of a
girl, while she is sleeping, intoxicated or disordered in
intellect.
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Of all these 8 kinds of marriage, Brahma is
the best, Deva and Praajaapatya are middling
quality, A'rhsa, A'sura and Ghaandharva of
inferior quality, Raakhssa is base, whilst
Paishaacha is the lowest and most wicked.
It should be borne in mind that the bride and the
bridegroom should not before marriage be allowed to meet
each other in retirement, since, such a meeting of young
people may lead to bad consequences.
When boys and girls become of a marriageable age,* in
other words, when only 6 or 12 months are left in the
completion of their Brahmacharya and education, let
the photographs or picture of boys be sent to the teachers
of Girls' schools, and those of girls, to those of Boys'
schools.
Let the teachers then send for the diaries** of those
who are alike in outward appearance, and study them
carefully. When they find any two students (one male and the
other female), resemble each other in disposition,
temperament, character, and accomplishments, and consider
them suited to each other for marriage, let them place the
photo and the diary of one in the hands of the other, and
ask them to inform them of their intention (i.e., whether
they would care to marry each other or not).
If the be quite willing to marry each other, let the
Return home ceremony of both be performed simultaneously.
They should be allowed to converse with each other or hold a
discussion (on any subject to test each other's knowledge
and ability) in the presence of their tutors, parents and
other respectable people.
Whatever questions or answers, on any confidential
subjects, one would like to put, or give to the other,
should be done in writing before the assembly. As soon as
they feel that their love for each other is strong enough to
entitle them to marry and have, consequently, made up their
minds to do so, the very best arrangement should be made
with regard to their diet so that their bodies, that had
weakened through the practice of rigid
* Minimum marriageable age for
a girl is 16 years, while that for a boy 25 years.
-Tr. **These diaries should be kept even since children
are born, first by parents, and then by tutors when they
have left home and joined their schools. In these books
should be recorded whatever the parents and tutors have
noticed in their children or pupils with regard to their
dispositions, temperaments, general behavior, habits,
character, physical ailments, as manifested in sport,
everything in connection with the development of their
bodies and gradual unfolding of their
minds.-Tr
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discipline and hard life of Brahmacharya, and
strict devotion to studies, may soon, gain in muscles and
strength just as the new moon grows into the full moon.
Afterwards, on the day, the bride has ceased to menstruate
and taken her bat of purification, let a Vedi be made
and a pavilion erected* and Homa performed with
clarified butter and odoriferous substances, etc. Let the
bride and the bridegroom invite learned men and women on
this occasion and honor them properly.
Let them then do all that is necessary, for the
occasion in accordance with the directions given in our book
called the Sanskaara Vidhi, on the day which has been
previously decided upon for the purpose of generating a new
life and most cheerfully go through the ceremony of joining
hands before all, and finish the whole marriage ceremony by
10 pm or 12pm and retire.
Let the husband follow the proper method of
discharging semen and the wife that of drawing it up. As far
as possible, they should never waste their reproductive
elements perfected and preserved by the practice of
Brahmacharya, because, the children born of the union
of such reproductive elements (male and female) are of a
very superior order.
When during the act of sexual intercourse the semen
is about to be discharged, let them be quite still, let the
nose of one be quite opposite to that of the other, and the
eyes of one to those of the other and so on; in other words,
their bodies should be straight, and their minds perfectly
happy. Their bodies should not bend one way or the other.
Let the husband relax his body, and the wife, as soon
as the semen enters her vagina, draw up her breath, pull
together her genitals and draw up the semen, so that it
finally rest in the uterus.** an enlightened woman will know
at that very moment if she has conceived.
In any case non- appearance of menses at the end of
the month will make it clear to all if conception has taken
place. Let them both then have a bath in clean water. Let
them take as much milk as they desire,*** and go to sleep in
their respective beds. This plan should be followed whenever
they wish to generate a new life. When after one month the
menses do not appear, and they are consequently
* Should the bride and the
bridegroom care to have their marriage celebrated in the
presence of their tutors, let it be done there (i.e., in the
seminary), otherwise the house of the bride's parents is the
proper place for it. ** This is a very delicate subject.
It would not be proper to dwell on it any further. These few
remarks should suffice to suggest all that my be
necessary. *** It should be first boiled with dry ginger,
satton, cardamom and then cooled down before it is
taken.
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convinced that conception has taken place, the
husband should not approach his wife for one year, for, by
following this advice, a child of a very superior order is
born and the children that follow are also as good as the
first-born; whilst on the other hand, by violating this law
the reproductive element is uselessly lost, the lives of the
husband and the wife are shortened and they are afflicted
with diverse diseases. But they should, by no means, cease
to treat each other most lovingly.
Let the husband preserve his reproductive element and
the wife take care of her child in utero. They should
conduct themselves in the matter of diet and dress in such a
manner that the husband may not lose his reproductive
element even in sleep, while the body of the child in utero
is ell nourished and grows in beauty, loveliness, strength
and energy, and the child is born during the 10th (lunar)
month (of pregnancy).
The wife should particularly take care of herself
from the 4th month but more particularly from the 8th. She
should never use purgatives, dry, non-nutritious articles,
intoxicants and other substances that are prejudicial to the
growth of intellect and physical strength. On the other hand
she should use such articles of food and drink as good rice,
wheat, lentils and other pulses, clarified butter, and milk.
She should also vary her diet intelligently according
to the climate of the locality (she lives in) and the season
of the year.* There are two Sanskaars to be performed during
conception, viz., one in the 4th month called
Punsavana** and the other in the 8th called
Simantonayana.*** These should be performed in a
fitting manner.
After confinement the mother and her child should be
most carefully looked after. About 2 inches from the navel
the cord should be tied with a stout but soft ligature, and
then cut off in front of it. It should be tied in such a
manner that not a drop of blood escapes from the child's
body. The mother and the child should then be given a bath
with warm and scented water. The room should be well
cleansed and Homa performed with clarified butter and
odoriferous substances. The father should, then, utter "thy
name is Veda" in the right ear of the child and dip a
gold pencil in a mixture of honey and
* Shunthipaaka and Saubhagya
Shunthipaaka should be kept ready before hand for use (These
preparations are considered as highly invigorating to the
system). Such nutritious substances as milk ad butter, and
condiments and medicine as ginger enter into their
composition.-Tr. **/*** The object of these Sanskaars is
to influence the physical and mental development of the
child n utero by publicly charging the enviente woman to
carry out certain instructions relation to her physical and
intellectual well-being. Be it noted that this is the most
impressionable period during
pregnancy.-Tr.
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clarified butter and write (the syllable ) Aum
on it tongue, and let it also lick a little of this mixture
off the pencil, and then hand over the child to its mother.
Let her suckle it if it be inclined to take the breast. If
there be no milk in its mother's breast let it be suckled by
some other woman who has been thoroughly examined (as to her
general health, the quality and quantity of her milk, etc.).
Let the child and its mother be then removed to
another clean, capacious and well-ventilated room wherein
they should be kept, and Homa performed with
clarified butter and odoriferous substances daily, morning
and evening. Let the child be suckled for the first six-days
by its mother who should be fed on a variety of light and
nourishing foods. She should also have her private parts
seen to.
On the sixth day let the lying-in-woman leave her
room and engage a wet-nurse for her child. He wet-nurse
should be fed on good and wholesome foods and drinks. She
should suckle the child a well as nurse it. The mother
should keep a watchful eye over her child so that it is not
neglected in any way. Let her also apply some plaster over
her breasts in order to check the flow of milk. She should
also diet herself properly.
Let the parents of the child perform the
Naming ceremony (on the 11th day of its birth) and
other Sanskaars in due course of time. When the wife
menstruates again and takes her bath of purification,
let them both (i.e., her husband as well as herself) follow
the plan of generating a new life that has been set forth
above>
The sage Manu says on the subject:- "He that is
contented with his own wife and avoids conjugal embraces on
the eight forbidden nights and is .Ritugaami* is a
Brahmachari a married man though he be." MANU 3: 50
"Wherever the husband is quite contented wit his
wife, and the wife with her husband, in that family alone
all prosperity, fortune and happiness perpetually dwell. And
wherever they disagree and squabble there poverty,
ill-fortune and misery are assuredly permanent." MANU
3"60.
* i.e., follows the plan of
generating a new life as has been laid down.
-Tr.
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"Certainly if the wife do not love and please her
husband, being unhappy he will not be sexually excited, and,
consequently no offspring will be produced. But even if the
children are born, they are very wicked and of a low type."
MANU 3: 61.
"If the husband does not please his wife, she being
unhappy, the whole family is unhappy and miserable; but if
the wife be quite contended with her husband, the whole
family enjoys felicity." MANU 3: 62.
"Let women be always propitiated (worshipped) by
their fathers and brothers, by their husbands and the
brothers of their husbands, in other words, they should
speak sweetly to them and provide them with good food, nice
clothes and ornaments, and thereby keep them happy. Those
who seek great prosperity and happiness should never inflict
pain on women." MANU 3: 55.
"Where women are honored (worshipped), in that family
great men are born; but where they are not honored, there
all acts are fruitless. Where women pass their days in
misery and sorrow because of the misdeed (such as adultery)
of their husbands that family soon entirely perishes, but
where they are happy because of the good conduct of their
husbands, the family continually prospers." MANU 3: 56, 57.
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"Let women, therefore, be always honored by being
given presents of clothes an ornaments, and supplied with
good food at festivals, jubilees and he like occasions, and
thereby made happy by those men who are desirous of wealth
and prosperity." MANU 3: 59. In these quotations the word
worshipped, of course, means duly honored. Let the husband
and the wife whenever they separate from or meet each other
for the first time during the day or the night, greet each
other with Namastay which means , I respect
you.
"Let a woman attend to her household work most
cheerfully and with great dexterity keep her utensils and
apparel clean, her house tidy, her furniture free from dust,
all eatables pure clean, and free from dirt. Let her never
be lavish in expenditure. Let her cooking be done so nicely
that the food may act on the system like a good medicine and
keep away disease (bodily and mental). Let her keep a proper
account of her (income and ) expenditure, and show it to her
husband (if necessary), use her servants properly and see
that nothing goes wrong in the house. MANU 5: 150.
"Let a man accept (the hand of) a good woman,
precious stone of different kinds, knowledge, truth purity,
gentle speech and various technical arts from all men and
from all countries." MANU 2: 240.
"Let a man utter what is true; but let him say what
is pleasing, i.e. good for others. Let him not speak a
disagreeable truth (e.g., let him never call a one-eyed man,
one-eyed). Not to let him speak an agreeable falsehood. This
is the Eternal Dharma (true conduct of life). Let him
speak
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kindly, i.e., what is good for others, but let him
not maintain fruitless enmity and altercation wit any." MANU
4: 138-139. Let him say what is good for another, even
though it may offend him. In the Mahabhaarat the sage
Vidur says: "In this world, O Dhritraashtra, there
are many people who would say sweet things to please and
flatter others; but rare is the man who would say or hear a
truth which is unpleasant to his ears but really conducive
to his good." Mahaabhaarat, Udyoga Parva, Vidur Niti.
It behaves all good men to point out one's faults and
shortcomings to one's face and her their own (from others).
But the way with the wicked is that they talk of one's
merits to one face, whilst they speak of his demerits behind
his back. So long as a man does not reveal his defects to
another, he cannot get rid to them nor can be acquire good
qualities. Let a man never speak ill of another. Detracting
from one's merits or as his merits, and of his demerits as
demerits constitutes Nindaa or misrepresentation;
whilst speaking of a man's merits as his merits, and of his
demerits as demerits constitutes Stuti, whilst
untruthfulness in speech constitutes Nindaa.
"Let the husband and the wife daily read and recite
the Veda and other Shaastraas that give
increase of wisdom, teach the means of acquiring wealth, and
promote their welfare. Let them also carefully revise what
they had studied during their student life and teach the
same. Since as far as a man thoroughly understands the
Shaatraas, so far can his knowledge and wisdom
advance, and so far his love for them grow." MANU 4: 19, 20.
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"Let him constantly perform the Five Great Daily
Duties, viz., Brahmayajna, Devayajna,
Valivaishwadevayajna, Pitriyajna and Atithiyajna, to the
best of his power. Out of these five Yajnas we have
already described the first two in the preceding chapter. To
recapitulate:-
Brahma Yajna. it comprises studying and
teaching the Veda and other Shaatraas, morning
and evening devotions and practice of Yoga.
Devayajna. it comprises the feeding of fire
with clarified butter and odoriferous substances,
association with the learned and the good, cultivation of
purity, truthfulness and similar other good qualities, and
the advancement of knowledge. These two Yajnas should
be performed daily (during the twilights).
"It is said in the Atharva Veda, "The Homa
substances (such as clarified butter, musk, camphor,
saffron) used in the morning homa keep the air pure
and wholesome till the next morning, while those burnt in
the evening Homa keep the air pure till the evening
and thereby promote health, strength and intellect.."
ATHARVA VEDA 19:7: 3, 4.
"A Dwija should, therefore, perform his
Sandhya upaasanaa (devotioins) and Agnihotra (Homa),
daily at sunrise and sunset." SHADYINSHA BRAHMANS 4: 5.
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"He who neglects these two duties daily in the
morning and in the evening, should be excluded from the
society of Dwijaas, (the three upper classes of
regenerates) in other words, he should be treated as a
Shoodra."MANU 2: 103.
O
~.Why should not Sandhyaa be performed three times a
day?
A~. Day and night do not meet three times a day.
Light darkness meet but twice in 24 hours, i.e., in the
morning and in the evening. Should a man refuse to believe
this and persist in midday, he should be asked to perform
his Sandhyaa at midnight. Should he be willing to do
so, let him also do it at the union of a prahara,* of
an hour with an hour, of a minute with a minute, of second
with a second. This he would find impossible to do.
Besides, not a single authority of any
Shaastraa is to be found in support of this practice.
Hence, it is right to perform Sandhya and Homa
only twice a day, not three times . time is no doubt divided
in to three periods - past, the present, and the future, -
but Sandhyahas nothing to with this
division.
Pitriyajna consists in serving learned men,
great teachers, scholars, one's father, mother, old people,
great men, and great yogis.
This Yajna is divided into 2
parts:- 1.Shradhaa is derived from shrat - truth.
That by which truth is accepted is called shradhaa whilst
that which is done with Shradha; i.e., with the object of
embracing truth, is called Shradha.
*A Prahara is equal to 3
hours,-Tr.
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2. Tarpana is anything done to please one's
father, mother and other elders (who are alive). And make
them happy.* Tarpana is again sub-divided into
three parts:- A ~ Deva Tarpana. "We serve
Brahma** and the like Devaas. We serve
Brahma'swife and the like Devis. We serve
Brahma's sons, disciples and the like. We serve
Brahma's companions and assistants."
The Shatapatha Brahmmana says:- "Verily,
the learned are Devaas."
-
Brahman is one who has mastered the four
Vedaas, along with their subsidiary sciences. Even
those who are a little less learned than a Brahma
are called Devaas. the wives of a Brahma and
other Devaas who are also learned men like their
husbands, are calledDevis.
~ Rishi Tarpana. This consists in serving
and honoring learned men like Marichi, the great
grandson of Braahmaa, who teaches boys, learned
women, like the wives of Marichi and other great
teachers, who teach girls, their learned sons, daughters
and pupils , comppanions and assistants (who are also
teachers).
~Pitri Tarpanaconsists in thoroughly
satisfying Pitars by offering them most regularly
good food, clothes, beautiful conveyances, etc.; in other
words, it consists in lovingly serving them the doing
everything in one's power to keep their bodies healthy and
their souls happy.
The following are the different kinds of
Pitars:-
-
A Somasada is one who is well-versed in the
spiritual and physical sciences.
An Agnishwaatais one who is well-versed in
the science of Agni, i.e., heat, light, electricity
and the like (forces).
* It should be borne in mind
that this yajna is meant for the living and not for the
dead. (The author condemns the practice of offering
oblations to the manes, which is in vogue at present
throughout India. ** Since Brahma was the first man to
master all the four Vedas, this word has come to mean master
of the four Vedas. It is title like Vyaasa, literally
diameter and therefore, one whose intellect has penetrated
the subtle meaning of the Vedas.
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-
A Barhishadis one who is engaged in
advancing knowledge and doing other useful works.
-
A Somapaais one who is the guardian of
health and strength, who uses essences of powerful herbs,
etc., and thus frees himself as well as others from
disease. In other words he is a doctor.
A Havirbhuja is a learned man who lives on
foods and drinks other than meat and spirituous liquors.
An A'jypa is one who protects highly useful
objects, and eats and drinks butter, milk, and the like
articles.
Sukalinais one who employs his time in
furthering the cause of truth and righteousness.
A Yama, ( a judge) is one who administers
justice and thereby protects the good and punishes the
wicked.
APitaa (father) is one who provides food for
his children, honors and protects them. He is also the
author of their being.
Pitaamahaa - Grandfather.
Maataa (mother) is one who honors her
children by giving them food and doing other useful things
for them.
Pitaamahi- the mother of one's father.
Prapitaa mahi - the grandmother of one's
father.
Wife>
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Sister and other relations.
People of the same stock of bearing the same
surname, and other old men and women.
4. Vaishwadeva Yajna, consists of three
parts:-
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When the meal is ready, let the householder take
all kinds of cooked food other than sour, salt and
alkaline, such as contain sugar, butter and milk, fetch
fire out of the hearth, and throw oblations of the food
into it reciting the mantraas beginning with Om
Agnaye Swaha all the while. The sageManu holds
the same view. "Let a Dwija perform Homa in
the (kitchen) fire with whatever has been cooked in the
kitchen for the purpose of purifying its air in the
following manner." MANU 3: 84.
Let him place some food on a (ordinary) plate or
leaf-plate after reciting each of the specific
Mantraas in all directions of the compass beginning
with the east. Let this food be offered to an
atithi, and in his absence thrown into the fire.
Then let him place salt food, such as pulses, rice,
vegetables and bread in 6 parts (on a plate) on the ground
reciting the specific mantraas at the time. Here is
an authority from Manu for this act.
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"Let him gently place on the ground some food for
dogs, fallen wretches, outcasts, those afflicted with
terrible diseases ( such as lepers), birds ( as crows),
insects (as ants.") MANU 3: 92.
Let him the give this food to one who is hungry,
distressed, diseased, or to dogs, crows and other such
creatures. The object of performing Homa is to purify
the kitchen air, whilst that of offering food is to atone
for the unintentional injury done to various living
creatures.
5. ~ Atithi Yajna. An Atithi is one
whose date of coming is not certain or fixed. Whenever a
Sanyaasi, who is virtuous and a preacher of truth,
itinerates for the good of all, is a perfect scholar, is a
Yogi of the highest order, happens to visit a
house-holder let him offer him water to wash his feet and
face, and to sip, and then offer a comfortable seat
respectfully, give him good food and drink and other good
things (such as clothes), and thus serve him most diligently
and make quite comfortable.
Then let him benefit himself by his good company by
learning such things in Physical and Spiritual Science, and
would help him in acquiring virtue, wealth (worldly
possessions), in gratifying legitimate desires, and
obtaining salvation. Let him conduct himself in accordance
with his good advice. On suitable occasions, even a
house-holder and a king can be honored as atithis,
but
"Let him never honor even by a greeting those that
revile the Vedaas or conduct themselves against their
teachings, those that lead anti-Vedic lives, tell lies,
practice frauds and live like cats, [Just as cats hide
themselves and keep staring at rats and then in a moment
pounce upon them, kill them and fill their stomachs;
likewise are such men as gain their selfish ends by lying ,
cheating and acting in other ways like cats. They are,
therefore, called cat-like] those that are obstinate,
stubborn and vain, do not know anything themselves nor would
they follow the advice of another, (i.e., those who follow
the dong-in-the-manger policy,) those that are sophists and
talk
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nonsense like the Vedaantistsof the present
day who declare that they are Brahma, the world is a
delusion, the Vedaas and Shaastraas and even
God are fictitious and spin similar other yarns, those that
live like herons )Just as a heron stands quietly on one leg
as if in deep meditation but really keeps a watchful eye on
some fish all the time to whose life it soon puts an end ,
and thereby accomplishes its selfish end, so do the
Vairaagees and Khaakis of today who are very
stubborn, obstinate and enemies of the Veda, such men
are, therefore, called heron-like)." Such men if honored
multiply, increase sin and unrighteousness in the world,
they are not only themselves do such works as bring about
their degradation but also sink their followers to the
lowest depths of ignorance and misery.
The
uses of these 5 Great Daily Duties (Yajnas) are:-
Brahmayajna is the cause of advancement in
knowledge, culture, righteousness and refinement of manners,
etc.
Agnihotra causes the purification of air, rain
and water, and thereby conduces to the happiness of the
world. The use of pure air for respiration, pure water, and
pure food promotes health, strength, energy and intellect,
which in their turn help men to acquire virtue, wealth,
gratify (righteous) desires, and attain salvation. Since
Agnihotra purifies the air, water, etc., it is also
called Devayajna.
Pitri Yajna. -
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The service of father , mother , other learned
persons and great souls, leads to the increase of
knowledge and wisdom which help a man to discriminate
between Right and Wrong. The acceptance of what is right
and the rejection of what is wrong makes him
happy.<.li> It is also right to serve our father,
mother, tutor, in return of the services they rendered us
while we were young. The faithful performance of this
Yajna saves us from the charge of
ingratitude.
Valivaishwadeva Yajna. Its uses are the same
as have been mentioned before. [Briefly speaking, they are
as follows:
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Purification of the kitchen air.
The discharge of our obligations towards the sick,
the needy, the fallen and towards those faithful and
useful animals and birds, etc. which are dependent on us
for sustenance.
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It is also a kind of atonement for the pain and
suffering we unknowingly inflict on the lower creation in
the daily routine of our lives. -Tr]
Atithi Yajna
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As long as there are no atithisof the
highest order in this world, progress cannot be made.
as they go about in all countries (of the world),
teaching and preaching truth, no hypocritical and
fraudulent practices can flourish.
The house-holders can also easily attain true
spiritual knowledge in all places.
One religion prevails among all men.
Unless there are atithis, doubts cannot be
dispelled, and without the removal of doubts, there can be
no firm faith. How can then there be any happiness without
firm faith?
"Let a man wake up early in the morning at (about 4
A.M.), having relieved the necessities of nature (and taken
a bath), let him think upon the means of acquiring virtue
and wealth, and upon the causation of his bodily diseases
(if any) and contemplate God." MANU 4: 92.
He should never lead an unrighteous life.
Unrighteousness practiced in this world does not go
unpunished, nor does it immediately produce its fruit (like
a cow). This is the reason why the ignorant do not fear sin,
but it must be borne in mind that the practice of
unrighteousness advancing slowly cuts off the very root of
your happiness." MANU 4: 174.
The worker of iniquity crosses the bounds of
righteousness just as water in a tank breaks as under its
banks and runs in all directions,
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so does he, through the practice of untruthfulness,
deceit, and fraud, in other words through transgressing the
commandments of the Vedas that are true guardians (of
human happiness), and through hypocrisy, take possession of
other people's wealth and property, and prospers for a
while, next with this wealth he obtains nice foods and
drinks, good clothes, jewelry, houses and carriages, and
wins social position and fame, even conquers his enemies
through foul means, but at last he soon perishes like a tree
whose root has been cut off."
Let a learned man always honestly instruct his pupils
in the ways of truthfulness and righteousness, as taught by
the Veda (viz., freedom from prejudice and
partiality, the practice of truth and justice, and the
rejection of untruth) and in nobility of character and
purity." MANU 4: 175.
"Let him never quarrel or wrangle with one who
officiates at a Yajna, with a teacher of truth and
unrighteousness, with a maternal uncle, an atithi and
a dependent., with children, ages and sick men, with a
doctor of medicine, with people springing from the same
paternal stock or belonging to the same Class as he,
connects by marriage (such as a father-in-law) and friends,
with his wife, and his daughter, and with his servants."
MANU 4: 171, 181.
A Dwija, who does not practice
Tapaassuch as the practice of Brahmacharya,
truthfulness, one who dos not study (the Veda), one who is
eager to accept gifts; these three sink into the greatest
depths of misery and rain on account of their wicked deeds,
just as he who attempts to
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cross an ocean in a boat made of stone sinks down"
MANU 4: 190 They no doubt sink but they also carry the
donors down with them, for, "Wealth although earned by
righteous means, given to the aforesaid three, ruins the
donor in this very life, and the recipient in the next."
MANU 4: 193.
"As he who attempts to cross the water in a boat of
stone, sinks to the bottom, even so an ignorant donor and an
ignorant donee sink low; in other words are afflicted with
misery and pain." MANU 4: 194
Imposters should neither be trusted nor served.
They are of the following 11 types:-
Dharmadwaji, (Literally one who displays the
flag or virtue), is one who does not practice any virtue, but
defrauds others in the name of virtue. MANU 4: 195 .
Sadaalubdha - a covetous wretch.
Chhadmika is a deceitful person.
Lokadambhakais one who brags of his greatness
before others.
Hinsra is one who does injury to living
creatures or bears malice to others.
Sarvaabhisandhaka is one who mixes with all
kinds of men - good or bad - such a person should be
considered a rogue and a mean fellow like a cat.
Adhodrishti is one who always looks down (whilst
walking) in order to be considered a very virtuous person.
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Naishkritikais one who is of a cruel,
vindictive nature, even ready to take one's life, if one has
happened to do him a slight injury in order to revenge
himself. MANU 4: 196.
Swaartha Saadhantatpara is one who is solely
intent on attaining his selfish end, even through fraud,
injustice, and hypocrisy.
Shatha is one who persists in his obstinacy even
though he knows he is in the wrong.
Mithia Viniti is one who id falsely demure and
puts on a saintly appearance (to deceive) others). He should
be considered a low wretch like a heron.
It is therefore, behoves all me and women "to
accumulate virtue by degrees for obtaining happiness in the
next world by giving pain to no living creature, just as the
white ant gradually raises its hill." For, "in the next world,
neither father, nor mother nor wife, nor sons, nor relations,
can befriend anyone. Virtue alone helps him there. Single is
each soul born; single it dies; single it enjoys the reward of
its virtue - happiness; single it suffers the consequence of
its sin - pain." MANU 4: 238 - 240.
It should be borne in mind. "A man commits a sin and
thereby obtains something which he brings home, where all his
family members enjoy it, but they do not suffer the
consequences of his sin, it is he alone, who committed the
sin, that reaps the consequences thereof." MAHABHAARAT
PAAJAGAR PARVA.
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"When a man dies, his relations leave his corpse like
(like a log or) a lump of clay on the ground, and retire with
averted faces.. No one accompanies him. It is 9his) virtue
alone that bears his company." MANU 4: 241.
"let a man, therefore, continually practice virtue for
the sake of securing happiness in the next world, since it is
through the help of virtue* alone that the soul can cross the
ocean of misery and sorrow so hard to cross. A man who
regards, virtue alone as the highest thing (in the world), and
whose sins have been destroyed through the practice of
righteousness, attains to that All-glorious Being whose body
is A'kaash ~ the most Beautiful Supreme Spirit ~ by
virtue of Dharma alone." MANU 4: 242, 243.
He who is preserving, gentle in disposition, subjugates
passions, shuns the company of cruel and wicked men, injures
no sentient creature, lives a virtuous life, keeps his mind
under thorough control, bestows on others the gift of
knowledge, etc., attains happiness." MANU 4: 246
* The word which I have translated into
virtue, is Dharma. I have already noted that this word is most
difficult to translate. No single word in the English language
can express its manifold meaning. Sometimes, I have translated
it into virtue, sometimes into justice, at other times into
truth etc. Briefly, it is the practice of truth, justice and
righteousness, devotion to duty, freedom from hatred, malice
and anger, etc., and love towards all living creatures. Its
ten characteristics will be described in the next Chapter. ~
Tr.
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"But it should also be borne in mind that " All things
have their nature ascertained by speech; in speech they have
their basis and from speech they proceed; consequently he that
falsifies his speech is guilty of theft and like sins." MANU
4: 256.
"Let a man, therefore, always avoid sins, such as
untruthfulness in speech, and practice virtue, since through
virtuous conduct, in other words, the practice of
Brahmacharya and subjugation of passion, etc., he
obtains long life, through virtuous conduct good offspring,
through virtuous conduct imperishable wealth, virtuous conduct
destroys all vices. For a man of bad character sinks to
contempt in the eyes of all good men, is afflicted with
misery, suffers from diverse diseases, and is short-lived."
MANU 4: 156, 157.
"Whatever act depends on another, that let him
studiously avoid but whatever act depends upon himself, that
let him diligently pursue." MANU 4: 159.
Because "Dependence is pain, whilst independence is
happiness. Let him know this to be the brief definition of
happiness and pain." MANU 4: 160.
But whatever is (in its very nature) dependent upon
both should be done with each other's approval, because the
relation between the husband and his wife is such that they
cannot be independent of each other, in other words, they
should treat each other most lovingly and live harmoniously.
They should never quarrel with each other, nor commit
adultery. The wife, subject to her husband's control, should
be supreme in the house, whilst all
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affairs other than those relating to the household
should e under the control of the husband. They should prevent
each other from contracting vices, in other words, it should
be borne in mind that after marriage, the husband and the wife
entirely belong to each other, that is, their hearts, their
feelings and their bodies from top to toe
(reproductive-elements and all included), become subject to
each other's control.
Let them never do anything against each other's wish.
Of all things likely to upset their happy relations, the worst
are adultery and fornication, etc. Let them avoid these. Let
the husband always remain contented with his wife, and the
wife with her husband. If they belong to the Brahman
Class, let the husband teach boys, and his wife, if she be
well-educated, teach girls.
Let them make them learned by preaching and lecturing
to them on various subjects. The husband is the adorable God
for the wife, and the wife is the adorable goddess for the
husband. As long as boys and girls remain in their respective
seminaries, let them look upon their teachers as their
parents, whilst the teacher should consider their pupils as
their children.
"He
alone is a wise man, who is never idle nor lazy, nor affected
by pleasure or pain, profit or loss, honor or dishonor, public
applause or censure, has always a firm faith in Dharma,
and cannot be tempted by sensual object." MAHAABHAARAT
VIDURPRAJAAGAR, 32.
To practice virtue and avoid sin, abstain from speaking
ill of God, of the Vedas, and of righteous living, have
unbounded faith in God, verily these are the duties of a wise
man. The first qualification of a wise man is that he should
be able to grasp the most abstruse subject in a very short
time, should devote years of his life to the study of the
Shaastras (true sciences) and thinking over them, apply
his knowledge for the good of others, never do anything for
his selfish gain, should not give his opinion unasked or
interrupt another in his speech.
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"He alone is a wise scholar who does not desire for the
unattainable, nor broods over his losses nor loses his head in
misfortune.
He alone is a wise scholar who is well-versed in all
kinds of knowledge, is a very clever debator, can speak on any
subject, is a good logician, has a good memory, can easily
give a true exposition of the Shaastras.
Verily he alone is entitled to be called a wise man
whose intellectual up-building is in conformity with truth (as
he knows it), who hears the Shaastras read that are in
harmony with reason, who never steps beyond the bounds of
good, righteous men.
Wherever such teachers (make and female)
exist, knowledge, righteousness, and good conduct advance and
thereby continually increases.
"He
who has neither read a Shaastra, nor heard it read, is
extremely vain, builds castles in the air though poor, wishes
to obtain things without any exertion on his 0part, is called
a fool by the wise." MAHAABHAARAT VIDURPRAJAAGAR 35.
He who enter an assembly or another man's house
in-invited and occupies a seat above his rank, jabbers a great
deal without being asked (to speak), is very credulous -i.e.
trust s the untrustworthy or believes that ought not to be
believed, is verily a fool and the lowest of the low.
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Wherever such men occupy the positions of teachers,
preachers, and preceptors, and are honored, there ignorance,
unrighteousness, band manners, discord, strife and disunion
grow and thereby misery and sorrow increase.
VICES
OF STUDENTS
"Physical mental inertia, use of intoxicants,
infatuation, idle gossip, neglect of studies, vanity, and want
of Brahmacharya, these seven vices are to found among
students." MAHAABHARAT VIDURPRAJAAGAR, 39. Such students can
never acquire knowledge.
How can a pleasure-hunter acquire knowledge? And how
can a student enjoy sensuous pleasures (and yet acquire
learning)? Let a pleasure-hunter bid farewell to knowledge and
let a seeker after knowledge bid farewell to sensuous
pleasure; since without doing this, no man can ever acquire
knowledge.
They
alone who practice virtue, subjugate their passions and never
lose their reproductive element, are true Brahmacharis
and become learned men." MAHAABHARAT VIDURNITI.
It follows, therefore, tht the teachers and students
should possess excellent qualities. The teachers should so
endeavor as to produce in their scholars such good qualities
as truthfulness in word, deed and thought, culture,
self-control, gentleness of disposition, perfect development
of mind and body, so that they may become well-versed in the
Vedas and Shaastras. the teachers should always
be diligent in eradicating the evil habits of their scholars
and in imparting knowledge. The scholars should always
cultivate
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self-control, mental tranquility, love for their
tutors, thoughtfulness and habits of diligence. They should so
exert themselves as to acquire perfect knowledge, perfect
Dharma, perfect development of body (to enable them to
live to the fullest age allotted to man), and learn to labor.
Such are the duties of Brahmans The duties of
Kshatriyaas will be described in the chapter on
Government.
The duties of Vaishyaas are to learn the
languages of various countries, the methods of different
trades, the (current) prices or rates (of different articles)
the art of buying and selling, to travel in different
countries (for the purposes of trade, etc.,, engage in
profitable business, rear cattle and other animals, improve
agriculture, augment wealth and spend it for the advancement
of knowledge and Dharma, to be truthful in speech and
free from hypocrisy, conduct business with honesty, and look
after all things in such a way that nothing is wasted or lost.
The duties of a Shudra are to be clever in all
kinds of manual* service, expert in cooking, to serve the
twice-born with love, and make his livelihood by it. The
twice-born should provide him with board and lodging, clothes
and pay all the expenses of his marriage, etc., or pay him a
monthly salary. All the four Classes should work
harmoniously and be of one mind in doing public good and
promoting righteousness, and share each other's joys and
sorrows, pleasure and pain and further the good of their
country and of their people with all their heart, with all
their soul, and with all the material resources at their
command.
The husband and the wife should never live apart from
each other, since the "use of animal food and intoxicants such
as spirituous liquors, association with the wicked, separation
from the husband, wandering about uselessly by herself from
place to place with object of visiting so-called saintly
persons (who are all really imposters), sleeping and dwelling
in another man's house (through wantonness) are the six vices
that are apt to contaminate a woman's character." MANU 9: 13.
These very vices contaminate a man's character as well.
* This is what erroneously
called menial service. ~ Tr.
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Separation between the husband and the wife is of
two kinds: Firstly, that caused by one of the parties going
abroad on business and , secondly, that caused by the death of
one of them. Separation of the first kind can be avoided if
the husband takes his wife along with him whenever he goes
abroad. The object of this injunction is that the husband and
the wife should not live apart from each other for long.
Q. ~Should a man or a woman marry more than
once?
A
~ Not when the other party is alive.
Q ~Can one party re-marry when the other is
dead?
A. ~ Yes. Says the sage Manu on this subject. " A man
or a woman, who ahs simply gone through the ceremony of
joining hands* but whose marriage has not been consummated, is
entitled to re-marry." MANU 9:179
But re-marriage is absolutely prohibited in the case of
a twice born man or woman (i.e., one belonging to a
Brahman, Kshatriya or Vaishya Class who has had sexual
intercourse with his or her consort.
Q. ~What are the evils of re-marriage** (in the case
of such persons)?
A. ~ The following are the principal
evils:-
Diminution of love between the husband and the wife,
since either of them can desert the other whenever he or she
so desires, and marry another person.***
On the death of one party, the other will take away the
property of his or her deceased consort when he or she marries
again. This will give rise to family disputes.
If a widow re marries, many a noble family will be
blotted out of existence, and its property destroyed (by
constant alienation).
* Joining hands is the chief
element in the Vedic ceremony of marriage. ** Re-marriage
includes Polygamy and Polyandry. ***This arrangement seems
to apply to marriage after divorce. ~
Tr.
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Re-marriage involves loss of true conjugal love and
infraction of duty towards the departed husband or wife.
For these reasons, re-marriage, polygamy and polyandry
are prohibited in the case of the twice born.
Q. ~ If one of the parties dies leaving no male
issue, even then the family line will become extinct. Besides,
if re-marriage be not allowed, the widows and widowers will
resort to adultery and fornication, procure abortion, and will
commit wicked deeds of a kindred nature. For these reasons
re-marriage is desirable.
A. ~ No. If the widows and widowers desire to practice
Brahmacharya, no such evil consequences will accrue.
Again, if the widow or widower adopts a boy of her and his
Class, the family line will be continued and there will be no
danger of adultery being restored to. Those, however, who
cannot control their passions may beget children by having
recourse to Niyoga.
Q.
~ What are the differences between re-marriage and
Niyoga?A. ~
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After marriage the bride leaves her paternal roof,
lives with her husband, and her relations with her relations
with her father's family cease to be very close; on the
contrary. The widow (in case she contracts Niyoga) continues
to live in her deceased husband's house.
The children begotten of marriage inherit the
property of their mother's husband, whereas, offspring
begotten of Niyoga on a widow are not regarded as children
of the begetter and consequently they don't take his
surname, nor can they be claimed by him. They are spoken fo
as the children of their mother's deceased husband, take his
surname, inherit his property and live in his house.
Married people are required to serve and help each
other, while those that contract Niyoga have to abandon all
relations (after the stipulated period).
the relation of marriage is life-long, while the
contract of Niyoga ceases to be operative after the desired
object has been attained.
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The husband and the wife help each other in the
performance of their house hold duties, while those that
have that have contracted Niyoga discharge the duties of
their respective households.
Q. ~ Do the same laws apply to Niyoga and marriage,
or are they different in each case?
A. ~ They are little different. A few differences have
already been enumerated, and here are some more:-
Jus as marriage is allowed only in the case of a
bachelor and a maid, likewise only a widow and a widower can
enter into the relation of Niyoga, but never a bachelor and
a maid.
A married couple always lives together but not that
connected by Niyoga. Such persons should come together only
when they intend to generate a new life. Whether Niyoga is
contracted for the benefit of the widow or of the widower,
the relation is dissolved after the second conception.
Let the widow rear the children for two or three
years and hand them to her husband by Niyoga, in case it has
been entered into for his behalf. In this way a widow can
give birth to two children for herself and two for each of
the four husbands by Niyoga. Similarly a widower can beget
two children for himself and two for each of the four wives
by Niyoga. Thus ten children in all can be produced by means
of Niyoga.
This is what the Veda declares:- "O thou who art fit
to procreate and art strong, do thou raise upon the married
wife or upon these widows, with whom thou hast contracted
Niyoga, good children, and make them happy. Do thou beget with
on thy married wife ten children, and consider her the
eleventh (member
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of the family). O woman! Let ten children be raised on
thee by the married husband or thy husbands by Niyoga and do
thou consider thy husband as the eleventh (member of thy
family)." Rig Veda 10: 85, 48.
The Vedic injunction requires that among
Braahmannas, Kshatriyaas and Vaishyaas a couple should in no
case produce more than ten children, other wise the offspring
are sure to be weak, both physically and intellectually, and
short-lived. Even such parents grow feeble, do not live long,
are afflicted with disease and consequently endure untold
sufferings.
Q. ~ But Niyoga looks like adultery.
A.~ Just as sexual connection between persons that are
not married is called adultery, so is sexual congress between
widows and widowers not connected by Niyoga is an adulterous
relation. Form this it follows that just as marriage
solemnized according to the law is not fornication, even so
Niyoga contracted according to the law cannot be termed
fornication.
If one's virgin daughter co-habits with a bachelor
after the marriage ceremony, enjoined by the Shaastras,
has been duly performed, this act is not regarded as
adulterous or sinful, nor does it inspire shame, for the same
reasons, Niyoga performed according to the Vedic injunction
should not be regarded sinful, nor should it inspire a feeling
of shame.
Q. ~ This is alright but it looks like
prostitution.
A. ~ No. A prostitute sticks to no particular man, nor
is she governed in her sexual relation by any specific laws,
while Niyoga marriage is governed by definite laws.. Just as
one does not feel any shame in giving away his daughter in
marriage to another person, in like manner there ought to be
no shame in contracting Niyoga. People who are given to
illicit intercourse do not give up this wicked habit even
after marriage.
Q. ~ To us it seems that Niyoga is a sinful
practice.
A. ~ If you think that Niyoga is sinful, why don't you
regard marriage also as sinful? The sin rather consists in
preventing people from contracting Niyoga, for according to
the Divine laws of Nature, natural appetites cannot be
controlled unless one be self-abnegating, profoundly learned,
and a Yogi of the highest order. Don't you consider it
a sin to procure abortion, destroy the fetus and inflict great
mental suffering on widows and widowers (by preventing them
from contracting Niyoga). For, so long as they are
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young, desire for children and sexual enjoyment will
drive people to the necessity of forming secret relations, if
the laws of State or Society disallow lawful gratification.
The only proper way of preventing adultery and illicit
intimacies is to let those, who can control their passions, do
without Niyoga or even marriage, but those who do not possess
so much self-restraint must marry, and in case of emergency
contract Niyoga, so that the chances of illicit intercourse
may be greatly minimized, love between the husband and the
wife enhanced, and consequently good children born, the human
race improved, and the practice of feticide put a stop to.
Marriage and Niyoga will do away with such wicked
practices as illicit intimacy between a low Class man and a
High class woman, or between a High class man and a Low Class
woman (such as a public woman), contamination of noble
families, extinction of the family line, mental anguish of
bachelors and maids, of widows and widowers, feticide and the
like crimes. For these reasons, contraction of Niyoga is
desirable.
Q. ~ What conditions should be observed in the
performance of the Niyoga ceremony?
A. ~
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Niyoga is solemnized publicly even as marriage is.
Just as in marriage, the consent of the bride and the
bridegroom and approval of good men are essential, even so
it is in Niyoga, in other words, when a man and a woman have
agreed to contract Niyoga, they should declare before an
assembly of their male and female relations that they ent4er
into the relation of Niyoga for begetting children, they
will have sexual congress for generating anew life once a
month, in case conception takes place they will not co-habit
for one year. If they should go against that declaration
they should be considered sinners and should be liable to
punishment by the State and the Society.
Q. ~Should the relation of Niyoga be entered into
with a member of one's own Class or with that of a different
Class as well?
A. ~ A woman should contract Niyoga with a member of
one's own Class or with that of a higher Class, that is, a
Vaishaya woman with a Braahman, a Kshatriya or aVaishaya; a
Kshatriya woman with Kshatriya or a Braahman; a Brahman woman
with a Braahman. The object of this is that the spermatic
fluid should always be of a man of the same Class as the woman
or of a higher Class, never
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of a lower one. The object (of God) in creating man and
woman is that they should produce children in accordance with
the dictates of true religion as enjoined by the Veda.
Q. ~ Why should a man contract Niyoga when he can
marry again?
A. ~ We have already said that according to the
injunctions of the Veda and the Shaastra among the twice-born
a man or a woman may marry only once, never a second time.
Justice demands that a bachelor, should be married to a
virgin. It is unjust and therefore wrong for a widower to
marry a virgin, and for a widow to marry a bachelor. Just as a
bachelor does not like to marry a widow, so no virgin would
like to marry a widower. If no virgin will marry a widower,
and no bachelor will marry a widow, men and women will feel
the necessity of contracting Niyoga. Moreover, dharma consists
in mating likes alone.
Q. ~ are there any Vedic and Shaastric authorities
in favor of Niyoga, as there are in support of the marriage
institution?
A. ~ "O man and woman (connected by Niyoga), just as a
widow, co-habits with her husband by Niyoga and produces
children for him, and a wife co-habits with her husband by
marriage and produces children for him, likewise (it may be
asked) where both of you were during the day and during the
night, and where you slept, who you are, and what your native
place is." RIG VEDA 10: 40, 2.
This indicates that man and wife should always live
together whether at home or abroad, and that a widow may also
take unto herself a husband by Niyoga and obtain children,
even as a virgin takes unto herself, a husband by marriage,
who raises upon her.*
Q. ~ Supposing the deceased
husband of a widow had no younger brother, with whom should
she contract Niyoga?
A. ~ With her devar, but the word devar does not mean
what you think. For the Nirukta says "The second husband by
Niyoga of a widow, be he the younger borther of her deceased
husband or his elder brother, or of a man of her won Class or
of a higher Class, is called Devar.
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"O widow! Dothou give up thinking of they deceased
husband and choose another from among living men. But thou
must understand and remember that if thou should contractest
Niyoga for the benefit of thy second husband with whom thou
are united by performing the ceremony of joining hands, the
child resulting from this union shall belong to him; but if
thou interest into relation of Niyoga for thy benefit, the
child shall be thine. Do thou bear this in mind. Let thy
husband by Niyoga also follow this law." RIG VEDA 18,8.
"Do thou O woman that givest no pain to thy husband or
devar (husband by Niyoga), art kind to animals in this Order
of householders, walk assiduously in the path of righteousness
and justice, art well-versed in all the shaastraas, hast
children and grandchildren, givest birth to valiant the brave
boys, desirest a second husband (by Niyoga), and bestoweth
happiness on all, accept a man of they choice as thy husband
or devar , and always perform the Homa which is the duty of
every householder." ATHARVA VEDA 14:, 2, 18.
The sage Manu also sanctions the marriage of virgin
widows. Says he "A virgin widow may marry the younger or the
elder brother of her deceased husband." MANU.
Q. ~ How many times can a man or woman enter into
the relation of Niyoga? What are the husbands, by marriage or
by Niyoga, of a woman, called?
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A. ~ "O woman! Thy first husband with whom thou art
united by marriage is named Soma, called so because hw
was a chaste bachelor (before marriage). Thy second husband
with whom thou art connected by Niyoga is named Gaandharva,
called so because he had already lived with another woman (to
whom he had been united by marriage). Thy third husband, (by
Niyoga) is named Agni (fire), called so because he so very
passionate. All thy other husbands from the fourth to the
eleventh are called men."
A
man may also contract Niyoga with eleven women (one after the
other), just as a woman may enter into the relation of Niyoga
with eleven men (one after the other), as sanctioned by the
Veda in the following text:-
"…….take unto thyself the eleventh husband by Niyoga."
RIG VEDA 10: 85, 45.
Q. ~ Why should not the world eleven be taken to
refer to ten sons and the husband as the eleventh (member of
the family)?
A. ~ Such an interpretation will not even sanction a
second husband and therefore go against such Shaatric
injunctions as have been quoted above (We reproduce some of
them here).
"Just as a widow takes into her self a devar, etc."
"The second husband by Niyoga of a widow, etc." "So thou O
woman that givest no pain to…..devar (husband by Niyoga)",
etc. "Thy second husband…is named Gaandharva."
The sage Manu also declares:-
"on failure of issue (by her deceased husband), a widow
may contract Niyoga with a widower (if bothe of them be
desirous of getting children), who may be her deceased
husband's younger or elder brother or his cousin within the
sixth degree or a man of her Class or of a higher Class.
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An elder brother, who approaches the wife of the
younger, and a younger brother, who approaches the wife of the
elder, when the necessity of getting children has ceased to
operate, even though united by Niyoga, shall be degraded (from
their Class). In other words, Niyoga lasts only so long as two
or four children are not born according as it has been
contracted for the benefit of one of the parties, or of both.
They should not approach each other after this. In this way
ten children may be produced by successive Niyogas.
Sexual congress after this is regarded as proceeding
from lust. Hence, those who resort to it are degraded (from
their Class). Even if married people co-habit with each other
after they have produced ten children, they are considered
lustful and held in great contempt, because marriage and
Niyoga are entered into for the object of getting children but
not for the gratification of passions like animals.
Q. ~ Can a woman contract Niyoga only after the
death of her husband or even when he is alive?
A. ~ This relation can be entered into even in the
lifetime of the husband (or of the wife). Here is Vedic text n
support of this view.
"When a man is incapable of producing children, let him
address his wife as follows:- O thou that art desirous of
getting children do not expect me to raise offspring upon
thee. Do thou, therefore, seek another husband." RIG VEDA 10:
10, 10. The woman seeking to contract Niyoga, should, however,
continue to serve her husband by marriage; similarly when a
woman on account of some chronic disease is rendered incapable
of bearing children, let her address the following words to
her husband. "My lord! Do not expect me to bear any children.
Do thou, therefore, contract Niyoga with a widow." Here are
some historical proofs as well in support of this doctrine:-
Kunti and Maadri, wives of king Pandu had recourse to
Niyoga. Vyas, on the death of his brothers, Chidraangad and
Vichitravirya
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contracted Niyoga with their wives and begot
Dhritraashtra on Ambikaa, Paandu on Ambaalika and Vidur on a
Shoodra woman.
The sage Manu declares:- "If a husband has gone
abroad in furtherance of some righteous cause, let his wife
wait for eight years; if for he acquisition of knowledge and
glory, for six years; if for the pursuit of material ends, for
three years. If after the expiry of the prescribed periods he
does not turn up, she may contract Niyoga and obtain
children." MANU 9: 76.
Should the husband (by marriage) return, the contract
of Niyoga shall become null and void. Similarly it is enjoined
in case of the husband that " if the wife be sterile, let the
husband wait for eight years after marriage; if all of her
children die, for then years, if she bears only daughters and
no sons, for eleven years, if she be a termagant, let him
forsake her immediately, and enter into Niyoga with another
lady and beget children upon her." MANU 9: 81.
Likewise if the husband be very cruel, let his wife
forsake him, and bear children by Niyoga who will succeed to
the property of her husband by marriage.
All these authorities and arguments go to prove that it
is the duty of each man to preserve and perpetuate his family
line and thereby improve the race by emans of Swayamvar Vivah
- marriage by choice - and Niyoga.
"Just as an Aurasa, a son born of marriage, is entitled
to inherit the property of his father, so is a Kshestrajna - a
son born of Niyoga." MANU.
Men and women should always bear in mind that the (male
or female) reproductive element is invaluable. Whosoever
wastes this invaluable fluid in illicit intercourse with other
people's wives, prostitutes, or lewd men, is the greatest
fool, because even a farmer or a gardener, ignorant though he
be, does not sow the seed in a field or a garden that is not
his own. When it is true in the case of an ordinary seed and
of an ignorant peasant, why
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should not that wastes the human see - the best of all
seeds - in an undesirable soil, be regarded as the greatest
fool, since he does not reap the fruit thereof. It is written
in the Braahman Granth, "A son is part of his father's self."
The Saama Veda also declares:- "O son! Thou art sprung out of
my spermatic fluid which is drawn from all the bodily organs
and from the heart. Thou art, therefore, my own self. Mayest
thou never die before me. Mayest thou live for a hundred
years." SAAMA VEDA. It is a sin of the deepest dye to sow the
seed, out of which great souls and distinguished men have
sprung, in a bad soil (such as a prostitute) or to let a good
soil be impregnated with a bad seed.
Q. ~ What is the good of the institution of
marriage? This relation restricts the liberty of people and
entails great suffering on them. Therefore it is desirable
that a couple should continue to live as man and wife as long
as they love each other, and separate when they are tired of
each other.
A. ~ This is what beast and birds do. It does not
become men to act like this. If the institution of marriage
did not exist, all the amenities of domestic life would come
to an end. None will serve another. Downright adultery and
illicit connections will increase, all men and women will be
afflicted with disease, physically and mentally, an will
consequently die young, no one will fear another or be
controlled by public opinion. Families upon families will be
blotted out of existence in consequence of disease, physical
and mental degeneration and premature death due to downright
adultery and fornication.
No one will have a title to succeed to another's
property, nor will any person be able to retain possession of
anything for any great length of time. All these evils can be
best avoided by marriage.
Q.~ Monogamy being the rule (i.e., if one man be
allowed to have only one wife, and one woman only one husband)
what will a person do, if the wife be encienti ir afflicted
with some chronic disease, or if the husband be a
valetudinarian and either of them cannot control himself or
herself on account of extreme youth?
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A. ~ We have answered this objection while treating of
Niyoga. If a man be not able to control his passions while his
wife and she is pregnant, he may contract Niyoga with a
(widow) and beget offspring on her, but let him never
misconduct himself with a prostitute or commit adultery. Let a
man, as far as possible, desire for what he has not got,
preserve what he has got, try to increase what he has
preserved, and spend it in doing good to his country.
Let every man perform the duties of his Class and
Order, as set forth above, mot faithfully, assiduously and
zealously, and apply himself heart and soul so the attainment
of righteous ends, and expend his wealth in the pursuit
thereof. Let him diligently serve his father, mother,
father-in-law, and mother-in-law, and maintain loving
relations with friends, neighbors, the king, learned and holy
men.
Let him treat the unrighteous and the wicked with
non-chalance, in other words, bear them no malice and endeavor
to reform them. Let him ungrudgingly spend his wealth in
securing for his children the benefits of wide culture and
liberal education, and try his best to make them perfect
scholars and men of culture. Let him do righteous deeds, and
thereby try to attain salvation so that he may enjoy eternal
(extreme) bliss.
Verses like the following should never be regarded as
authoritative. ["Even a degraded twice-born man is
superior to Shudra who has conquered his lower self, just as a
cow that does not yield milk is worthy of worship, a
she-donkey is not worshipped even though she yields milk. The
following are prohibited in Kaliyuga (iron age) :-
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Horse sacrifice.
Cow sacrifice.
Initiation into Sanyaas (the Order of Renunciation).
Offering flesh balls in a ceremony relating to the
manes.
Raising of issue on a widow by her husband (by
Niyoga)
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The scriptures enjoin that a widow may take unto
herself a second husband in the following cases:-
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If the husband has gone abroad and cannot be traced.
If he be dead.
If he has turned a Sanyasi
If he be impotent
If he be excommunicated."]
PARAASHAR
SMRITI.
The above verses are from the apocryphal Parashar
Smriti. It is downright prejudice, sheer injustice, and a
great sin to regard a wicked twice-born man better than a
virtuous Shudra. If a cow, whether it yield mil or not, is
cared for by the milkman, the she-donkey is equally an object
of care for the potter.* Even the illustration is defective,
since the twice-born man and the Shudra belong to the human
species -bovine and asinine. Should even an illustration from
the animal kingdom be partly applicable to human beings, this
verse cannot be regarded as true by learned men, it being
oppose to the reason.
Horse-sacrifice and cow-sacrifice not being enjoined by
the Vedaas, their condemnation in the Kaliyuga (iron age)
alone must surely be regarded as opposed to the Vedaas. If it
is thought necessary to condemn these wicked practices in the
Kaliyuga, it follows that they are permissible in the other
three Yugas (viz., Golden, Silver, Bronze ages); but is
absolutely impossible that such wicked practices should
prevail during ages** when righteousness reigned supreme.
Again initiation into the Order of Sanyaas finds
sanction in the Vedas another Shaastras, therefore it is
foolish to interdict it. If indulgence in flesh foods is
interdicted (which it undoubtedly is), then the prohibition
should apply equally to all ages. Why should the author of
these verses be barking like a dog, i.e., indulging in
puerile
* Donkeys are very often used by
potters in India for carrying pottery from place to place.
Tr. ** The period covered by Creation is called Brahmadina
(God's day), while the period covered by Dissolution is called
Braahmaratri (God's night): Brahmadina (God's day) is divided
into 1,000 Chaturyugis, each of which is again divided into 4
Yugas or ages, these are:-
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Sat Yuga or Golden age = 1,728,000 years.
Dwaapur Yuga or Silver age = 1,296,000 years
Treta Yuga or Bronze age = 864,000 years
Kaliyuga or Iron age = 432,000 years
The orthodox believe that these Yugas influence the
conduct of the human race for good or for evil, hence they
have given these Yugas the names of Golden, Silver, Bronze and
Iron respectively. The author does not share this view. -
Tr.
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Nonsense, when Niyoga is clearly allowed by the Veda.
If the husband has gone abroad and during his absence the wife
contracts Niyoga, whose wife will she be regarded if the
husband (by marriage) returns? It may be replied that she
would belong by right to him who married her. This is
perfectly right, but this provision is not laid down in the
Paraashar Smritti. Are there only five occasions of
emergencies on which a woman may find it necessary to have
recourse to Niyoga? These occasions are more than five in
number. Here are some others:-
Prolonged illness of the husband
Serious differences with the husband,
etc.
The verses like these are, unworthy of belief.
Q. ~ Well sir! Have you no faith even in what the
Parashar says:
A. ~ Nothing that is opposed to the Vedas ought to be
believed in, no matter who has taught it. Moreover, these are
not the words of Parashar. People write books in the name of
eminent men like Brahma, Vasishtha, Rama, Shiva, Vishnu and
Devi so that these books, being stamped with the authority of
universally esteemed great men and women, may be acceptable to
the whole world, and the real authors and their successors)
may be pecuniarily benefited to a great extent.
It is for this reason that they write books replete
with foolish and mythical stories. Among the Smrities, the
Manu Smriti alone is authentic, the interpolated verses being
excepted. What has been said about the Smrities applies with
equal force to all apocryphal books.
Q. ~ Is the Order of householders the highest or the
lowest of Orders?
A. ~ Each of the orders is noble in its own place. Says
Manu:- "Just as all rivers and rivulets meander till they
find a resting place in the ocean, so do men of all Orders
find protection with householders. The men of no Order can
properly discharge their duties without the help of
householders." MANU 6: 90.
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"A all living creatures subsist by receiving support
from air, even so do the men of all Orders subsist by
receiving support from the householder. Because men of the
three other Orders - Brahamcharya, Vaanaprasth and Sanyaas -
are daily supported by the house holder with gifts of food,
&c., the Orders of householders is the most excellent
Order, In other words, it is the pivot upon which the entire
A'shram (Order) system turns."
MANU 3: 78.
The duties of this Order, which cannot be practiced by
men who are cowardly and possess a poor physique, must be
faithfully discharged by those who desire uninterrupted
happiness in this world and imperishable bliss hereafter."
MANU 3: 79
All the concerns of life are, therefore, dependent on
the Order of householders. If this Order did not exist, the
human species would not be propagated, the consequently the
Orders of Brahmacharya Vaanaprasth and Sanyaas
could not be called into existence. Whosoever speaks ill of
this Order is himself worthy of contempt, but whosoever speaks
well of it deserves all praise.
But be it remembered that this Order can be fruitful of
happiness only when both the husband and the wife are
contented with each other, are learned and energetic, and
fully know their duties. The chief causes which contribute to
the happiness of householders are Brahmacharya and
marriage by choice of which we have already treated.
We have thus briefly discoursed on Return Home,
Marriage and Married Life in this Chapter. We shall treat of
the orders of Vanaprasth and Sanyaas in the
next.
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